We were in the middle of a conversation about death when the phone line went dead. No, that’s not spooky at all, is it?
“Trippy,” laughed James Van Praagh when he called back. It was an appropriate pun, for he had been telling me about a scary plane trip and how that relates to his own death at some point in the future.
Van Praagh is one of America’s best known psychic mediums. In the 1990’s he hosted his own television show, “Beyond With James Van Praagh” but most recently was the creative force behind the CBS hit show “Ghost Whisperer”. He has several more television show ideas in various stages of development, plus several books, CDs and events that bear his name. Van Praagh will take the stage Sunday, Feb. 27 in Phoenix for “An Evening With Spirit”, where he will do what he has become famous for: communicating with the spirits of our dead loved ones.
But it was his death that interested me most.
“That thing about knowing when you’re going to die is freaky,” I said.
“I think it’s reassuring,” he replied. “I know what the age is I’m going to die and I know how I’m going to die.” The giggle that followed might be considered morbid to many. But Van Praagh is very comfortable with death. “There is no such thing,” he writes in his book Ghosts Among Us . “Death refers only to the end of the physical body.”
He won’t divulge whatever details he may know about the end of his life. In fact, he won’t divulge whatever details he may know about the end of anyone’s life. And people do ask.
“Yeah they do ask,” he said. “And I say ‘I can’t tell you.’ I just say, you know, ‘Go to the doctor, get all your papers in order,’ because when you know something like that, you’ve got to present it in a way where you have compassion with it. You don’t want to scary anybody.”
Death is a topic that frightens many. We fear the uncertainty of when it may happen. We fear the finality of our existence. And while sorrow, tragedy and grief are real emotions that accompany the death experience, Van Praagh says life is never-ending. Those who have left the physical world, he writes, “walk among us, impressing us with their love, guiding us with their wisdom, and protecting us from harm.”
Van Praagh plans to discuss fear during his appearance Sunday night. “I do a whole thing about choices,” he said. “I will discuss a lot about choices and what our choices are based upon- fear and love. I talk a lot about fear and love.”
Fear and love. Perhaps the two most powerful forces in the universe. We could use less of one and more of the other.
Tickets to see Van Praagh tonight in Phoenix are still available. He regularly tours the country hosting seminars, group communication events and teaching sessions. Information can be found on his own web site.
-By Scott Davis, Paranormal Matrix Reporter
Debra Martin was confused. "There's another man standing here," she said. She'd been speaking with the Wilson family about a recently deceased aunt. In fact my photographer James Apalategui and I were doing an interview with them about the possibility that the aunt was murdered.
"He didn't belong there," Debra told me later about the new man she saw, "and it threw me because I couldn't figure out why he just suddenly approached".The rest of us didn't see him approach. The rest of us didn't see him at all. And now I know why.
It was July 27th (2007) at 12:47pm. I know the exact time because James' cell phone began to ring. He silenced it.
Debra continued to talk about the strange man who just showed up. See, she's a medium.She says she communicates with the dead. Marita Wilson, her son Dennis and her mother were there hoping to connect with the aunt's spirit. They believe associates took her life intending to swindle money and property from the family.
If you believe in what mediums do, then you will have no trouble believing that Marita's aunt did indeed speak from the Other Side.Debra gave very specific information about the family. A new haircut with bangs, the color purple, an heirloom necklace with a cross on it, a special bed quilt and the frequent appearance of dragonflies. Marita and her son agreed all of these symbols held significance for the family.
Through Debra, Marita asked her deceased aunt Alicia if the family should pursue justice in the death and push for arrests and trial. Debra says that's when the male spirit appeared in the room. With no other explanation at hand, Debra made the assumption that the stranger was there to symbolize new associates at the trial. She suggested that Marita and her son pray for guidance and help if the case goes that far. "I was fumbling for an answer," Debra says now. "I didn't know what to say. I could tell it was a man, and I could tell it was not related to them." Marita and her family are Hispanic. The unknown man was White.
James' phone rang again. He silenced it. It rang again. He left his camera recording and took the phone outside. Then my phone rang. It was the station calling. I left my camera rolling and also went outside. As I hit the door, James burst back in. "We're done," he said. "We've gotta go. Bruce- no, Scott Bowerbank and Jim Cox just crashed."
There were gasps all around and Debra turned on the television. Patti Kirkpatrick was anchoring through her tears as information was still coming in. She wasn't giving names but we knew. We knew.
James and I packed up the lights, cameras and tapes and said hasty good-byes with a promise to follow up in the coming days. Debra walked us to the door and told me she was sure the unexplained man who appeared during the reading was there for us, not the Wilsons. "He's here with us. I'm afraid he's passed." She struggled for words. "And the person keeps saying, 'Shit', over and over... like... just 'shit.'"
We left Debra's house and headed straight for the crash scene in Central Phoenix. I considered her words the entire way. I considered what happened. I considered possible answers. And I made up my mind. I needed to call Debra for more. But that would have to wait another day. James and I stayed at the crash site the rest of the day, and like everyone else- we worked despite our shock and sorrow. We had a job to do. A job to bring viewers information; a job to honor our fallen friends: Jim Cox, Scott Bowerbank, Rick Krolak and Craig Smith. I think they were watching us.And I think they still are.


"He was a friend of the family plus he was my boyfriend," she said with a shy smile. "I was afraid he'd never come back. I actually went to the window one night and I looked up and I asked them to bring him home." Her voice began to break and the tears welled up. "And when he was returned I was so happy, because I knew how much he meant to me."
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